Saturday, December 26, 2009

G.O.R.G.E.


Thanks to Chad Reichert, we have a great photo of this year's annual Christmastime gathering of some high school and college friends of Jeff. This is the first time we did a school gym instead of a restaurant to make it more relaxing for children and parents alike.
Good eating was still a high priority though, with pizza brought in from both Sanfratello's and Gino's East.

Friday, December 25, 2009

Christmas Day

Some special gifts and a quiet holiday to play with them:
Magnetic dressing dolls for Karma
Gas station with oil tanker and cars for Douwe
A new game, Quirkle, for Jeff and Jess


Thursday, December 24, 2009

Monday, December 21, 2009

Painting the Stars



Token shots of our bare-bones Christmas-time baking: about 9 pre-cut cookies and frosting out of a bag from Market Day. Douwe and Karma enjoyed smearing their three cookies with colored frosting and eating them.

Saturday, December 19, 2009

Suiting up

This was actually a more slushy than snowy morning, but fun to put on snowpants, boots and mittens for the first time.

Thursday, December 17, 2009

Holiday Music Concert


This Kenwood school singing concert was one of the highlights of my Christmas season.
We got a front row seat, and both toddlers were totally tranfixed the whole hour. Each grade from K through 5 had two songs and the music director had chosen a lovely variety of traditional Christian carols and fun songs about santa.

Gabe asked for permission and was granted to play Jingle Bells on his flute to open the evening. He has no qualms about being in the spotlight, that's for sure!

Saturday, December 12, 2009

Anniversary over-nighter

Jeff and I celebrated our ninth wedding anniversary with an overnight excursion downtown. We have done this for several years now, to walk around where I lived when we were dating and to stop in the church where we had our wedding. We even walked in our reception place, which is now a jewelry close-out store. That awesome cigar-bar Club Macanudo closed down only months after our wedding when humidores passed out of mode.

The biggest highlight of our day today was our first visit to Xoco for lunch. It is Rick Bayless' and Deann Groen Bayless' (yes Deann is cousin to Jeff's dad) new Mexican street-food restaurant. We waited in a long line,mostly indoors, but the whole time we could watch the food preparation. Here's a photo of the wood-burning oven where they make their special tortas.
And a photo of a woman with a very tedious job, peeling the skins off roasted poblanos.
We watched them making the sandwiches, and another team was mixing up batches of chocolate hazelnut cookies, there were bags and bags of special torta loaves being unloaded from a Labriola box. They had signs up where we waited of all their food sources: a few we recognized were of course Labriola bread from Alsip, Three Floyds beer from Munster in the beverage case, and flour from New Rinkel mill which is not too far away in Indiana.

We ordered two tortas and shared each. These were the best sandwiches we have eaten maybe ever? The bread was perfectly crispy and soft at the same time.
That must be why they use a wood-burning stove. And we shared one of those chocolate hazelnut cookies. A perfect lunch. I was tempted to dance out of the door and sing out to all the waiting people, "Yes, it is so worth your wait!"

Another highlight of my day happened in the Apple store on Michigan Ave. It is quite an experience to just be in that building and play with their latest models of Macs, iPhones and iPods. But I'm less into computerized toys than Jeff so after a few minutes I was waiting till he was finished browsing, standing in the middle of the store looking around at people and the space and thinking all this whiteness and glass and vaulted glass ceiling makes this a modern sort of cathedral.
I heard clapping and music upstairs, so went upstairs to see what was drawing the crowds to the second floor demo/teaching auditorium. As I was going up the glassy staircase I heard these words from part of a later verse of the Christmas carol O Holy Night:

. . . And in his name all oppression shall cease.
Sweet hymns of joy in grateful chorus raise we,
Let all within us praise his holy name.

Christ is the Lord! O praise his name forever.
His power and glory evermore proclaim. . . .


This is the Apple store and I'm hearing angels singing upstairs. Well actually it was a rock trio called the Barlow Girls doing a free concert on the little stage near the Genius Bar. I shouldn't be surprised, it is Christmas time, but it was a treat to experience how gospel announcing keeps happening these days, even inside a place built to the honor and glory of a digital screen nestled within a slim white case.

The third treat was touring the new food market that opened a few days ago in the Ogilvie transportation center right across the street from Jeff's work building. We sampled wine, truffles, gelato, empanadas and a raw or unbaked lemon bar.

Friday, December 11, 2009

Who moved my cheese?

At the lunch table today, Douwe dropped his piece of grilled cheese on the floor. I was sitting right next to him so he knew that I saw him drop it. In times past he has had to go sit on the steps for using food and utensils as projectiles from his booster seat. But lately I try to ignore him when he does this, since it rewards him with what he wants anyway, more attention from me and a chance to leave the table early. Also, Karma mimics whatever gets Douwe in trouble so she can have the attention of a consequence also.

I didn't really pay any attention to the dropped sandwich, but he said, as soon as he dropped it. "I don't want to sit on the steps." And then without missing a beat he added: "She jumped off the table by herself."

I'm not sure why a cheesy sandwich scrap is a she, maybe because it was a penguin waddling around his plate a few minutes before. But it amazed me how he discovered in a flash that it might help to make up a new reality, then looked straight in my eye and sweetly described how the sandwich got to the floor. Welcome to the human race, my baby Douwe. You are now complicit with the rest of us who have made many an attempt to cover up our actions and blame another. Usually we are too crafty to pin our actions upon an inanimate object, but you'll figure that out too, I suppose.

Saturday, December 5, 2009

Long tables

Gabe is in chess club at his school and the Hammond elementary schools had an invitational tournament today that included many schools in northern Indiana and hundreds of kids. I was so amazed to see the game room lined with long tables and hundreds of chess boards. WE parents had to camp out in the hall ways for the day so the kids could play without coaches nagging over their shoulders.




Midday, Jeff took my place in the hallway so I could take Karma and Douwe to the Christmas party hosted by our placement agency. This room was also full of long tables set up for many families and their foster and to-be-adopted children. Santa even came for a visit.



By 4 pm we were all home and winding down from a busy day. My sister called to see if we wanted to join her and her friend Patrick for a pizza night out. On one hand we were finally home on a cold day after being out and about all day. On the other hand, I didn't really have anything tasty in mind for supper, so we hopped in the car and enjoyed some pizza at another long table that was set up for 7.

Tuesday, December 1, 2009

December in the Park

Was it really 57 degrees today? Can't pass up the park on the way home from school!

Sunday, November 29, 2009

Thanksgiving Weekend

Most of the weekend seemed to be stressful and rushed, but there were a few occasions that the smiles came out . . .

Hanging out by the dessert table at the Groen Thanksgiving.





Douwe's hat working well for a sun shade.




Finding our Christmas tree.




An afternoon at the roller rink.

Sunday, November 15, 2009

Afternoon at the Arboretum



We had a very light lunch after church, then hopped in the car, told the toddlers to lean their head back and take a nap, and got to Morton Arboretum around 2 pm. Gabe and I scouted out the children's garden while the little ones slept, and then we went back to the car and returned to the garden exploring in this general order: Backyard gardens, adventure forest, step-stone pond, climbing rocks, tree-line rope ladders, root and ramp slides, evergreen maze, toddler shrub maze, gift shop. It was only less than two hours we played here, but it felt like four. It was nippy out, but everyone had lots of fun. We didn't even get outside of the children's garden which is a tiny fraction of this amazing Arboretum. The fall leaves were mostly fallen, but a lot of neat seed pods and things on shrubs throughout our walk.


Pantry Gifts

I went to Community Day at Carson's yesterday for no better reason than to use up the $5 coupon book I purchased for a fundraiser. I did not have a list and so wandered around pretty aimlessly, not too surprised that nothing looked that great. Whenever I am in stores in the last few years, they seem overcrowded with inventory. The aisles are always too small and cluttered to move a cart or stroller through and I feel a bit anxious that all this stuff is supposed to be wanted by people.

Jeff and I have been trying to move more towards giving edible and experiential gifts for special occasions and Christmas. Play tickets, wine, a Bulls game, these aren't easily wrapped, but they seem more worthwhile than another eyeshadow-palette or action figure or pair of slippers.


This photo shows the entire pantry and most of the prep counter space of our kitchen. It is not a lot of space, but we have put out a lot of great from-scratch meals over the last 7 years, mainly because we have an efficiently stocked pantry of common ingredients: It holds about every shelf-stable (or long-frig-life) item on most recipe lists that we have used. Of course we have to get the fresh meat, dairy and produce for each week's menu, but having all the vinegars, spices, and other flavorings usually helps us see that an ingredient list of 15 items is doable since we already have about 12 of the items on hand.

If you are not interested in buying more clothing and toys and grooming gadgets for family members who already have more than they can stuff in their walk-in closets . .here's a couple of pantry gift basket ideas that will encourage your loved-ones to enjoy their kitchen work triangle a little more often and with less up-front expense. Here are some of the ingredients that show up regularly in a lot of cooking and baking recipes we have enjoyed over the years. Do you still have your original mustard seeds from your bridal shower spice rack? Maybe it is time to put a few pantry items on your own wish list! This is my pantry would have if it were fully stocked:

Possible themed collections:
Oil Shelf: Extra-virgin olive oil. Canola oil. Corn oil. Sesame seed oil. Peanut oil. Cooking oil spray.

Vinegar Shelf: Vinegar. Apple-cider vinegar. Balsamic Vinegar. White Wine Vinegar. Red Wine Vinegar. Sweet Rice Wine (Mirin). Seasoned Rice Wine Vinegar.

Flavorings Shelf: Soy sauce. Worchestershire sauce. Tobasco sauce. Fish Sauce. Table Salt. Peppercorns/grinder. Kosher Salt. Ketchup. Mustard. Dijon mustard. Whole grain mustard. Mayonnaise. Horseradish. BBQ sauce. Chili garlic paste. Vegetable broth. Chicken stock. Beef base or boullion.

Sweeteners Shelf: Sugar. Honey. Molasses. Bittersweet Chocolate bars for melting. Light brown sugar. Dark Brown Sugar. Mexican chocolate. Dutch-processed unsweetened cocoa powder. Pure maple syrup. Confectioners Sugar.

Spirits shelf: Vanilla Extract. Almond Extract. Peppermint Extract. Brandy. Bourbon. Sherry.

Nuts/seeds/dried fruits Shelf: Sweetened coconut flakes, Pine Nuts, Pecan Halves, Chopped Walnuts, Slivered Almonds, Shelled Pistachios, Peanuts, Peanut Butter, Tahini, Dried Cranberries, Dried Cherries, Golden Raisins, Raisins.

Grains and Beans shelf: Dry lentils, dry peas, dry white beans, canned black beans, canned chick peas (garbanzos), white rice, brown rice, wild rice, corn meal, oats, bulgur, quinoa, wheat bran, various dried pastas, instant polenta, bread crumbs,

Preserved produce shelf (depending on season):cans or jars of: pineapple chunks, tomato paste, tomato sauce, chopped tomatos, capers, black olives, sun-dried oil packed tomatoes, tuna, corn, fruit jelly or marmalade, coconut milk

Baker's shelf: All-purpose flour, whole wheat flour, bread flour, baking soda, baking powder, semi-sweet chips, butterscotch chips, sweetened condensed milk, graham cracker crumbs, corn starch, yeast packets.

Winter Cellar/Root basket: Yellow onion, red onion, white onion, garlic, shallots, potatoes, yams, acorn squash, butternut squash, ginger root (I keep my counter basket stocked with a few of each and throw out anything that starts shriveling up after a few weeks)

Spice/Herb Shelf: ok this alone could add up to a lot of money! In our area there is usually a Mexican food aisle that will carry large portions of these for cheaper than the McCormick bottles that seem to be like $2 a tablespoon.

The coolest gift would be to get a coffee bean grinder, a hand grater, and these whole spices so that they could be ground or grates when needed: whole nutmeg, cumin seeds, whole cloves, coriander seeds, cardamom pods, whole peppercorns.

Or here's the favorites from the Groen spice rack, and it is worth keeping up a supply of everything here, because your spice rack gives you the access to make about anything from any region's cuisine! allspice, dried basil, bay leaves, caraway seeds, ground cardamom, cayenne powder (hot!), chili powder, chinese 5-spice powder, ground cinnamon, cinnamon sticks, ground cloves, ground coriander, curry powder, ground ginger, ground mustard, mustard seeds, ground nutmeg, dried oregano, sweet paprika, hot paprika, ground white pepper, crushed red pepper, dried rosemary, poppy seeds, saffron!, sesame seeds, star anise, dried thyme, dried tarragon, turmeric, whole vanilla beans, wasabi powder.

Thursday, November 12, 2009

Reader's Theatre


Gabe got to be the Gingerbread Man part for his class presentation of Gingerbread Boy Goes Uptown, Reader's Theatre style.

Saturday, November 7, 2009

Back to Bellaboo's



This indoor play park is only a few minutes from where Gabe and Karma have family visits, so we will be getting here often this winter!

Friday, November 6, 2009

And for a treat . . .


This is the photo Gabe took to document all the chocolate candy chunks that were included in the batch of ice-cream that he and Jeff made on Sunday. We others who did not make the ice-cream were challenged to guess the 9? different types of candy included. They called this flavor: The Halloween Special

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Grains and Beans, Raw Veggies

Here are a 3 good recipes for some food groups that are not as easy to incorporate into our menus: raw vegetables, beans, grains, nuts. The adults get to eat well in our house, the kids wish I'd just stick to Macaroni and Cheese mixed up with wieners.

Mexican Slaw (copied from De Cero Taqueria menu)
Shredded Red Cabbage
Grated Jicama
Lime Juice
Chopped Jalapeno
Honey

I don't have any measurements just throw some together and taste it.

Chickpea and Rice Salad w/ Moroccan Spiced-Dressing(from Pamela Morgan's Flavors our first and favorite household cookbook.) Her directions are very particular, long and helpful so I am abbreviating a bit.

Cook up 1/2 cup of wild rice (she adds a little soy sauce and molasses to the cooking water)
Cook up 1/2 cup of brown rice

DRESSING: Toast the dressing spices till fragrant for a few minutes in small heavy skillet over low heat:1 tsp each: (ground) turmeric, coriander, curry powder and nutmeg

Then toss the spices with 1/4 c. olive oil, 1/4 rice wine vinegar, 2 Tbsp honey, 2Tbsp sugar.

In a large bowl combine the dressing with the drained hot rices, and add 1 15-oz can rinsed and drained chick-peas, 1/2 cup golden raisins, and 1/3 cup sliced unblanched almonds, toasted.

Serve at room temperature. The salad can be made a day ahead of eating but then wait to add the almonds right before serving.

I made this last week for a ham dinner and ate about half of it in the morning right after I made it, it is so good!

Lentil Soup from the New Moosewood Cookbook
(I changed the fresh tomato part to canned b/c it is no longer summer.) This soup is very flavorful, I didn't think it would be that great but it is.
3 c. dry lentils
7 c. water
2 tsp salt
6-8 medium garlic cloves, crushed
2 c. chopped onion
2 stalks celery chopped
2 med carrots sliced or diced
optional, 1/2 to 1 tsp. basil, 1/2 tsp thyme, 1/2 tsp oregano
lots of ground black peper
(a can of chopped tomatoes)
red wine vinegar to drizzle on top

1; Place lentils, water and salt in a kettle. Bring to a boil, lower heat to slowest possible simmer and cook partially covered for 20-30 min.

2 Add vegetables (except tomatoes), herbs and black pepper. Partially cover and let simmer another 20-30 min, stirring occasionally

3 Add tomatoes and cook for 5 min more

4 Serve hot with a drizzle of vinegar on top of each steaming bowlful

Saturday, October 31, 2009

Memento Mori

Remember you must die.

I led a book discussion group at my church for a few years and one of our fall sessions was themed: "Teach us to Count our Days." The morbid awareness that we are all gonna die someday gives us the ability to appreciate life today even more, or so some people think. We read a humorous novel about a group of elderly friends going to funeral after funeral called Memento Mori , and a book written by an undertaker called The Undertaking, a bunch of essays about death and burial. A few months ago, I read a book that would have fit perfectly into this theme, called Stiff.

I grew up in a family that did not observe Halloween. Some years we were allowed to hand out candy at our own front door, one year we dressed up our little sister as a witch and used her as a front to get ourselves some candy from the neighbors (she was too little to know she was breaking the rules, and we older two could argue that we were not technically trick-or-treating). One year a sign was posted on our front door that chided any trick-or-treaters that came up our front walk: 'This house does not participate in the pagan observance of Halloween.' My first real full-on Halloween costume was my sophomore year in college, I went to a party as Pippi Longstocking, with Kool-Aid red hair braided and sticking up with coat hanger support.

Last year I gently thumbed my nose at the no-Halloween observance rule of my high school by giving a Reformation Day speech in chapel in monkish costume as Tetzel, that priest infamous for selling indulgences in such a way to get Martin Luther fired up about reforming the Church.

I prefer classy pumpkins and mums and "fall harvest" decor to blow up jack-o-lanterns and mummies for my fall yard look, but this year on Halloween day I poured a bunch of styrofoam human bones on our front park bench. Two years ago I let Steve and his friends set up a gruesome scene of a partially buried person in my front lawn. What is going on with me?

I think Halloween is a holiday a Christian can observe without embarrassment or a sense of double standard. Memento Mori means "reminder of death" and that is what I think Halloween has become. We don't see dead and dying people very often, and yet for a few weeks we are surrounded with skeletons, graveyards, and other sights that remind us of something everyone has some level of dread for: the eventual time of our own death and bodily decay.

As a Christian, I believe that part of the curse that came upon the human race in Eden is that Death has cast a shadow of fear and scariness over life and it is no help at all to pretend otherwise. Halloween is good at reminding us all that we humans are collectively afraid of monsters, zombies, ghosts, demons, vampires, graveyards, spiders, blood-soaked weapons. But I also believe that the good news of Jesus' resurrection allows us to stick our tongue out at death and poke fun of it in a way that Halloween has given us permission to do.

I'm not going to insist that Halloween is little more than a fun day to put kids in a cute puppy costume and take pictures and let them collect candy. One look at the costume selection for kids and adults at Party City is proof enough--Halloween gets to the heart of it all: sex and death. Ninja warrior. Sexy nurse. Vampire bride. Blood. Fake gory body parts.

I'm not going to ignore all the ghoul. I'm going to keep learning what my neighbors are afraid of by appreciating what is set out on their lawn, tacky or gruesome. I'm going to admit that I'm afraid of these things too. I'm going to look Death in the eye, and cringe a bit, because it will keel me over some day. But then I'm also going to stick my tongue out at it, cavort around the neighborhood with my kids in costumes, and show up in church next Easter to keep hearing the good news that takes us beyond Halloween existence: Death is keeled over too, not by the reproductive juices of Hot Sexy Nurse or the brave exploits of Super Hero Ninja Warrior, but by a place that was first revealed to fearful women like me: the empty tomb of Jesus Christ.

Happy Birthday

We chose tonight to celebrate birthdays of Gabe and Karma with our family members. Karma was very excited to get some dress-up items, a Dora the Explorer game, hair-ribbons, stickers and a grocery cart! Gabe received some great books, a chess game and a Transformers movie. We stayed up a little late to watch a movie, it was supposed to be Wizard of Oz, but we had a technical difficulty so watched Annie instead. A fun evening for all.

Trick or Treat


Douwe has no interest in dressing up, ringing doorbells, although he does like candy. Gabe and Karma were very excited to dress up and collect some candy and treats from the neighbors.

Sunday, October 25, 2009

Weekend in Idaho

Jeff and Douwe flew out to Idaho for a very short weekend trip to attend Auntie Kim's surprise birthday party. Douwe had fun playing with his older cousins Charlie and Chloe, and their dog Skip. Jeff enjoyed helping prepare food with Bob for the party and for Sunday dinner.


Friday, October 23, 2009

Fall Fun Fair




The Montessori Children's Schoolhouse in Hammond provides a great place for Douwe and Karma to spend their mornings exploring and learning with other kids. They have a fall fundraiser at the Hammond Civic Center with tickets and fair games and a cake walk and our whole family had a nice time. Gabe used all his tickets on the cake walk and won about 3 cakes. Douwe made a few baskets in the little basketball game, so Jeff was tickled. I spent most of the time at the face-painting station because they needed lots of parent helpers, so we were glad that Nana and Papa were there to help escort the toddlers around to the various games.